945 Esther Wildenberg: Undermined to Unstoppable
From Corporate to Codebreaker, the Resilience of Success
How do you go from undermined to unstoppable?
As young girls and women, we get undermined in all sorts of subtle and unsubtle ways until we internalize the false beliefs that hold us back.
It’s not easy to climb the corporate ladder as one of a handful of women at a multinational to become its CEO, let alone build successful entrepreneurial ventures as one part of a lesbian co-founding team pitching VCs in Silicon Valley.
But Esther Wildenberg found her way, and as her 50th birthday approached, she set her sights on helping women truly step into their power in business. The result? A top-selling book called The Undermined Soul and a renewed passion for helping female founders change the game.
Esther’s executive path started at a young age. By the age of 33, she was the CEO of a consulting company in Europe, leading a team of over 800 employees. From there, she held multiple C-Suite Executive Leadership positions while building her own consulting and coaching company in the Netherlands. Today, her impressive career spans over 20 years, across multiple industries and continents, now as co-founder and president of Codebreaker Technologies, the world’s leading personality coding platform.
Yet according to Esther, she’s just getting started.
Esther says women are the world’s “new asset class”, delivering higher returns and greater longevity as entrepreneurs despite receiving less than 2% of venture capital. She says it’s time to own our own ambition, support other women meaningfully, proudly own female attributes like emotional intelligence, intuition and multitasking as superpowers, and break the cycle that keeps too many women playing small.
🔑Key Takeaways🔑
👩🔬 🚀 Women are the World’s New Asset Class: Why women will dominate business because of innate superpowers like intuition, multitasking and relationship-building. The data is clear: Despite women receiving less than 2% of venture capital, female-founded companies deliver higher returns and greater longevity. When women invest in women, we all rise.
✨💪 Reclaim Your Narrative: Esther wrote her book, The Undermined Soul, as a legacy for her son, sharing how she transformed being undermined into her source of strength. She reminds us that our greatest obstacles are often society’s limiting beliefs—ones we can choose to rewrite.
❤️⚡Real Power = Emotional Intelligence: Whether leading a company or pitching to investors, understanding people’s values is key. Esther’s approach—rooted in relationship-building and her personality coding technology—demonstrates that empathy and adaptability drive true results.
🎯 💡 Bonus Insight:
Esther also gives us a sneak peek into Codebreaker Technologies and its revolutionary personality coding tech that’s helping women entrepreneurs win more sales, faster—all by understanding human behavior in seconds.
More about Esther Wildenberg at www.theunderminedsoul.com

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More about Esther at Code Breaker Tech
Esther Wildenberg is committed to empowering women while leaving a sustainable legacy today and for the next generation. She’s Co-Founder and President of Codebreaker Technologies, a world leader in personality coding. She’s also the author of The Undermined Soul, a book dedicated to help women step into their power in business sharing the lessons she learned along the way. By the age of 33, she was the CEO of a consulting company in Europe, leading a team of over 800 employees. From there, she held multiple C-Suite Executive Leadership positions while building her own consulting and coaching company in the Netherlands. With over two decades of international experience, she understands culture, diversity, inclusion, and the power of team like no other. Her passion? People. Her mission? To equip and empower people to manifest their own greatness in business and in life.
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